In Antinette’s Shoes

Episode 39: Retiring the "Strong One" | 31 Years On Duty

Episode 39: Retiring the "Strong One" | 31 Years On Duty
Are you the pillar everyone leans on, but you have no one to lean on yourself?
In this episode of In Antinette’s Shoes, I am documenting a major shift in my own journey in real time: the official retirement of my "Strong One" identity. I did the math on my life and realized I’ve been on duty since I was six years old—starting as a lookout for my mother and becoming a third parent to my siblings by fourteen. After 31 years of protecting everyone else, the "need" for that hardness has finally expired.
Using my real-time framework, I’m helping you bridge the gap between hearing my story and structuring your own. We discuss the cost of carrying a "General" mindset into your business and home, and why you must do the work to decommission this role before it sabotages the woman you are becoming.
In this episode, we execute an audit of your own "Tour of Duty," including:
The Math of Your Journey: Identifying exactly how many years you’ve been "on call."
The Positive & Negative Side Effects: The truth about the guilt you’ll feel when you choose peace over labor, and the catastrophic cost of staying the family backbone.
The Silence Test: A practical challenge to help you stop "fixing" and start witnessing others find their own strength.
If you are a first-born daughter, an entrepreneur of many years, or the person who is tired of being the only one who "gets it done," this episode is your executive blueprint for retirement.
Links & Resources Mentioned:
New Listeners: I encourage you to go back and listen to Episode 35 (Clarity as a Lifestyle) through Episode 38 (The 2026 Blueprint) to build your foundation for this shift.
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Ep 38 | The January Blueprint: Building the Empire

"A dream without a plan is just a vision. I’m here to turn my Visionaries into Actionaries."
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on my own building process. January wasn’t just the start of a new year; it was a deep-dive audit into the infrastructure of my life, my businesses, and my home. From pivoting my business model for The Stand De to choosing my power over a paycheck, I’m showing you the raw architecture of what it looks like to engineer a holistic legacy.
Whether you are a first-born daughter tired of carrying the weight without a system, or an entrepreneur ready to treat your personal life with the same professional rigor as your business, this blueprint is for you.
Inside the Episode:
The December Ramp-Up: Why your building process shouldn't wait for January 1st.
Goals vs. Projects: How to stop "hoping" and start assigning yourself a clear scope of work.
The Stand De Audit: A raw look at missed revenue, structural gains, and the pivot from product to workforce development.
Position Over Paychecks: Choosing self-trust over the "safety" of building someone else's dream.
Weeding the Soil: Auditing friendships and operationalizing peace at home—your headquarters.
Join the Building Process:
I want to hear about the projects you are assigning yourself for 2026. Join the conversation and share your blueprint in our community.
Connect with Antinette:
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Ep 37: Clarity vs. Urgency: How to Accept the Truth & Move with Intention

Clarity tells you what’s true. You decide how to move with it.
In Episode 37, Antinette explores the phase we often skip: the space between getting clear and taking action. Many of us treat clarity like a starting gun, rushing to make moves or announcements before we’ve actually integrated the truth. But clarity doesn't demand performance; it asks for acceptance.
If you are in a season of transition, waiting, or feeling the pressure to "perform" your growth for others, this episode is your permission slip to slow down. Antinette shares why moving at a pace that protects your peace is the most strategic action you can take.
When you need grounding, return to these 3 questions:
What am I clear about right now?
What am I still resisting accepting, even though I know it’s true?
Does this clarity require immediate action or patient integration?
RESOURCES & COMMUNITY:
Join the Self-Defined Community: Looking for a space to simply exist? Join our Facebook group, Self-Defined. This is a judgment-free zone where we don’t offer unsolicited advice; we simply show up, stay present, and allow one another to define our own journeys.
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Get the Radical Reflection Clarity Tool ($5): If you’re ready to stop guessing and start knowing, you need Phase One: Reflection. This tool is designed to help you name what’s aligned and what’s not so you can move with authority.
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Clarity is a journey, not a race. Trust yourself enough to honor what you know.
 

Ep 36: How to Begin Practicing Clarity TODAY!

Episode 36
How to Begin Practicing Clarity
Reflection as the Foundation of Clarity
Clarity doesn’t come from having all the answers.It comes from slowing down long enough to tell yourself the truth.
In this episode, I walk through how to begin practicing clarity through intentional reflection. Instead of rushing toward goals or decisions, we talk about why reflection is the foundation of clarity and how it has shaped the way I move in this season of my life.
I also share the five core areas I always reflect on when I feel unclear, overwhelmed, or unsure about what comes next, along with why each area matters.
Episode Breakdown
0:00–3:06 Intro and grounding3:06 What today’s episode is about and why clarity comes firstClarity and reflection as the foundation of clarity11:46 The five areas I focus on when reflecting21:42 Wrapping up and how to practice this reflection for yourself
If you want a guided way to practice what we talk about in this episode, I created Clarity Tool #1, the Radical Clarity Reflection guide. It walks you through this exact reflection process and is linked below. I encourage you to grab a journal and reflect freely, and if you want structure and guidance, the tool is available for $5.
Purchase Radical Clarity Reflection Tool #1 Here
Clarity is not something you find.
It’s something you practice.
Until next time!
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Thank ya!

Ep 35: Why Clarity Has to Be a Lifestyle in 2026

2026 is a Universal Year 1.That doesn’t mean “dream bigger.”It means start cleaner.
In this first episode of 2026, I reflect on the lessons 2025 taught me, the clarity I’ve gained over the last 30 months, and how I’m entering this new year with intention instead of pressure.
I break down:
What a Universal Year 1 actually means
How numerology can be used as a clarity tool (not a crutch)
Why clarity isn’t a feeling — it’s an action and a process
Four reasons clarity has to become a lifestyle if you want different results in 2026
If you’ve been asking for direction, this episode will challenge you to stop waiting for it and start creating it.
🎧 In Antinette’s Shoes — Episode 1 of 2026
👉 Listen if you’re ready to move differently this year.

Episode 34: End-of-Year Money Check-In: Progress, Setbacks, and Staying the Course

In this episode, I’m getting real about my end-of-year money goals. From tackling credit card debt to building my savings and preparing to become a first-time homebuyer, I’m breaking down where I’m at, what’s working, and where I’ve hit a few bumps.
I’ll walk you through my monthly financial check-in and reflect on how I’m staying focused even when life tries to knock me off track. This isn’t just about the numbers, it’s about mindset, habits, and giving ourselves grace while still holding ourselves accountable.
If you’ve been working toward your own financial goals or thinking about making changes before the year ends, this one’s for you. Let’s check in, refocus, and finish strong, together!

Episode 33: Managing Unexpected Changes in Business as an Entrepreneur + 9 Questions to Answer to Support You in Gaining Clarity on Your Personal Success Journey & More....

Hey UA Gang!!
It's a great day to be alive! I am happy to be presenting this episode to YOU!
Today’s we discuss a few topics. Outline and timestamps below:
0-1:00 Intro
1:01 Welcome / Last Episode Recap
3:01 Superbowl Feedback
6:41 Galentines
8:43 Pivoting + Dealing w/ Unexpected Changes in Business
11:11 Intro to 9 Question
12:42 What do I really want to do?
19:45 How do I want to reemerge?
25:11 Am I totally fulfilled?
26:54 What totally fulfills me?
28:00 What leaves me feeling empty/unfulfilled?
30:01 Who do I want to be?
33:38 What do I want I want to be?
35:38 How do I want to make money in this next season?
42:31 What is your specialization?
44:15 Conclusion
 
I encourage you to spend intentional time quietly thinking about and journaling your responses to the questions above. 
 
I hope you enjoyed today's conversation. Until next time!
 
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Ep 32: New Moon in Aquarius + Chinese Lunar New Year "Year of the Snake" + February 2025 TarotScope

Hey UA Gang
Happy Tuesday!
I am happy to provide you with Episode 32! 
After doing some research on what is working and not working on my podcast, I realized that you enjoy astrology. I love that for you because I do too! 
Being as though the new moon recently passed, I thought it would b great for us to have a conversation about energies surrounding the new moon.We will also discuss the Lunar New Year “Year of the Snake”, and then I end the episode with the February 2025 Tarotscope
I hope you enjoy this episode because I enjoyed listening to it!
 
Timestamps below
0-4:43 Intro
4:44-18:39 New Moon in Aquarius
18:40-23:26 Personaln Insights
23:27 - 26:36 Chinese Lunar New Year “Year of the Snake”
26:37 February 2025 Tarotscope
 
To book a personal reading you can DM on IG @authentically_antinette or you can email tgn@antinettedevelops.com
 
Until next time!

Ep 31: Podcast Growth Strategies | February 2025 Personal & Professional Goals | Winter Financial Blues & Growth Strategies & More....

Hey UA Gang!!
I am back with another episode and I am so happy to share it with you! 
In this episode, I share with you some actions that I am taking to grow my podcast in 2025. If you have a podcast, or looking to start one this part of the conversation could be beneficial to you.
I also share some goals that I am working towards in certain areas of my life to obtain the success I want. This part of the conversation would be great for you if you have goals you are working towards. You never know how you can be inspired, motivated, or what you can learn by listening to the stories of others.
I also talk to you about my financial woes. Remember, we listen & we don't judge. I share this with you to let you know the ups and downs of entrepreneurship. However, I already know I won't be in this situation for long. It's the last lesson before elevation.
I hope you enjoy this episode
Thank you for listening!

Ep 30: We Discuss: The Last 18 Recap | Dreaming Past Your Current Circumstances | Strategies to Help Make Your Dreams A Reality

Hey UA Gang!
Thank you for tuning in to today's episode. I really appreciate you!!
Today's episode is from a live that I recorded on Facebook on January 7,2025.
It is a much needed conversation on the topic of giving yourself permission to dream in this 2025 season. 
You being able to dream is your super power and I never want you to forget it! 
So today we discuss
The last 18 recap 
The importance and power behind dreaming past your current circumstances
Strategies to implement that will support you in making your dreams a reality
I hope you receive something from this conversation. Thank you for listening!
Until next time!
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